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Home, sweet, SWEET, home!

The last time I took a 2 week vacation, I was 24.  I took the week off from my (NEW) job before our wedding and the week after for our honeymoon.  Every other vacation has been the standard week and for the last decade our vacations have consisted of traveling to see friends—which is GREAT, do NOT get me wrong, but it’s quite different from a “vacation”.  So, if that gives you a little insight to what a big deal our vacation was…..you might have an inkling of our excitement these past 2 weeks.  Truly just bordering on the surreal, “pinch me” kind of moments.

Alas though, all good things must come to an end. Memories were made and as our daughter said, “I like vacation.  Vacation is awesome!”  I absolutely agree with her!

Thursday night, the Hubs and the girls and I–with the dog, all enjoyed a little hike along the river trail near the cabin and a leisurely swim in the river enjoying the evening with no agenda aside from packing.

Friday morning AFTER an eventful night (for me–everyone else was sleeping) of seeing a baby bear climb down from a tree in our backyard and haul a** back into the forest after being chased into the tree by a neighborhood dog, we began the trek back to my mom’s house.

First stop was the grave of one of the co-founders of AA.  It was a brief visit for the Hubs and though we didn’t really talk much about it, it was emotional.  For me, this man played a tremendous part in essentially saving my husband’s life by giving him the tools to manage his life, to manage his addiction, to help others navigate alcoholism, to have a second chance at the life God meant for us to have…..it was powerful.  I didn’t even get out of the car.  Hubs was quietly wrangling his emotions.  This moment, at the end of an amazing and long-dreamed for vacation, was a huge moment.  So much gratitude.  From both of us.

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The next two days were spent with my mama, her hubby and my aunt (who was passing through on the way to see my cousin) were precious one-on-one times, rest and strolling around town.  Deer watching.  Firefly spotting.  No reason to rush.  Good stuff.

Initially, we planned on hitting DC for the day on the way home, but after realizing that our pup might not have as much access as we thought to the outdoor monuments, summer parking in DC, and 4000degree weather…we decided to make DC it’s own trip later this year or next.  THAT decision meant powering through and making the 16 hour trip in one shot, giving us 2 days of vacation at home before going back to work.

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Sweet puppy!

Since we knew it was going to be a long day, it makes total sense for the morning to start out with a puking and pooping puppy, it was a rough beginning and a long a** day  with our final time of 17.5 hours home—thank you crappy N. Carolina for your humongous lunch time clusterF!  In the end though, we made it home, slept in our beds last night, got the grocery shopping done, laundry started and house mostly cleaned.  Aaaaand hit the YMCA.  It was a good Plan B.  Because transition back to real life is a toughie.

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Now, it’s off to bed and enjoy ONE MORE DAY OF VACATION tomorrow!!!

Peace!!

 

It’s all about the journey

Yesterday, we had a pretty chill-day.  It’s actually incredibly difficult to force down-time when there is so much to see and do, but mother nature helped us out with a rainy start and finish to our day.  Although we did manage to sneak in a walk through town and a quick walk on the river trail in-between storms.  A little driving around and napping, too.  It was good stuff.  However, even on a “chill day”, I didn’t have to try hard to get my 10,000 steps in.

This morning started out at a brisk 57degrees and cloudy; a temperature that my brain and body are still trying to compute.  The boys were planning on heading up to hike Mt. Washington and the girls and I were going to do some shorter hikes and then it just was dreary, cold and not looking so promising.  They decided to go for it anyway.  (and at this moment, have just summitted).  They will eat their weight in pizza for sure at Fabyans.

We picked an “easy” hike up Lonesome lake trail to Lonesome Lake and to check out the huts that you can stay in.  1.6 miles.  Straight, friggin’ up.  Easy?  I don’t even believe those AT trail people and their descriptions anymore.  At one point I honestly just started praying out loud the old stand-by of “Come, Holy Spirit” with a Hail Mary to round it out because our youngest daughter was so hangry that I was about to go Mommy Dearest on her.  Fortunately, prayers don’t fail and we made it to the top with our family intact. And what a view.  Hangry passed and going down was FAR EASIER than going up—although my rear end will be talking to me later today. So….. at 1:30 p.m. and 13,000 steps already, our hikes (plural) have turned into A HIKE (singular)  and now we will clean up and explore before we pick up the boys later.  And that is A-OK.

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What an amazing world we live in.

Oh, and on the way down, we passed folks heading up to stay in the huts with full backpack gear, but the most impressive was Mama toting a toddler on her back.  I told her that she was my hero, because a practically empty teensy backpack was all this Mama could do.  Awesome!!

We all need a little more good Samaritin

In the wake of last week’s tragedies and the terrifying level of unrest and chaos that has followed, I’ve just been processing and re-processing the events but mostly just in the way we all respond.  I’ve seen several friends just step away from social media to get a break from all the negativity and turmoil.  Others spouting crazy and radical views, but most are just trying to focus on trying a little harder to love each other.

And that is hard.

But not impossible.

Sunday’s Mass gospel (Luke 10:25-37) focuses on the story of the good Samaritan, who of the 3 men who pass by a battered man on the roadway is the least likely to help…..they are different religions, races and hated by one another and yet, this is the man that lends the healing hand.  All other things are cast aside and the Good Samaritan only sees another human in need and does what he can to help the man.  This.  This is what we need in our country and neighborhoods and homes, right now.

We don’t get to choose our skin color.

We don’t choose what country we are born into.

We don’t choose our family.

We can choose what we do with our skin color, our country, our family.

We can choose how we treat one another.

A little more good Samaritan.

 

Paralysis

That moment when you really, REALLY need to get in gear to start packing and list-making and hotel reservation making for the upcoming vacation that starts in 3 days and you are just paralyzed.  Or under water.  Moving, but ever so slowly and hoping for momentum to build to get the train started.

But the events of the last two days….so much to process and fear really wants to just take control.  To do that though, evil wins, right?  So, we just keep on movin’ on and praying and living this life.

We may just find a cave behind the waterfalls of New Hampshire and stay.  I don’t know.  The thought is quite appealing right now.

This moment I choose to break free, to keep moving forward.  And that’s all I can do.  This moment.

Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.
― Mother Teresa

Summah time

Summer is here!  Actually we are a full 12 days into summer here in our little corner of the world.  And, we have yet to really hit any kind of routine and that’s OK.  It’s summer.  That’s the beauty of it!

For Mama and Papa, summer looks like this:  wake up in the a.m.  have coffee.  enjoy quiet time.  Make sure oldest kiddo is up for work.  Make breakfast/lunch and go to work.  That’s it.  No dragging people out of bed.  No breakfast orders.  Clothing searches.  Homework retrieval.  It’s glorious!!!

As the summer marches on, our girls will each babysit for friends and neighbors throughout the summer as well as hang with friends and our oldest daughter will be working on knocking out her first part of her online course requirement for high school.

Our sons will work.  One full-time and the other part-time and juggling beach, friends and girlfriend and working on time management skillz—a dire need and constant struggle.

Vacation is less than a month away and while we are super excited, my mind is also starting to spin a little with packing and all that stuff that goes with preparing to be away from home for 2 weeks!

It’s all good, though!  All good.  Happy summer!!

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