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About tracye1

A wee bit about me, Tracy. Married to my high school sweetie for a looooong time. Mama of 4 beautiful kiddos, now ADULTS!!!! This blog is a potpourri of posts. Some wax on about my Catholic faith, others family, some are just a “diary” of life updates. Life is a journey, taken one day at a time (sometimes one step at a time) and my blog is about my personal trek through life. Peace!

18 years and we still got it!!

18 years ago, my 24-year-old self became a June bride.  My husband would turn 25 on our honeymoon in the Dominican Republic.  It was the “Year of the Wedding”…not just ours but with many of our friends getting married as well.  We joked we belonged to the Wedding of the Month Club.  It was a fun time.  Expensive, I’m certain, but at 24 who really dwells on that?  I certainly don’t remember losing any sleep over it.  For our own wedding, my girlfriend and I attended a bridal show and I won the GRAND PRIZE as we were leaving.  It consisted of a wedding gown, tux rentals, limo rental, wedding cake, hotel room, flowers and a bunch of other stuff.  All I know is…… SCORE!!!  (and boy were my parents happy!)

Fast forward 18 years, 4 kids, 1 townhouse, 3 houses, 2 dogs and 1 cat later.  We are but a glimpse of the smiling young couple you see above.  Not in a bad way.  In a roll-with-life way.  Kids change you.    Growing up changes you (NOW finances can cause you to lose sleep!).  Jobs change you.  Life changes you.  For us, I am happy to say that we still enjoy each other’s company.  We still laugh.  We still fight.  We still love.  So much has changed and yet, most days, in my heart, I still feel like the bright and happy 24-year-old.

Anyone that’s married can tell you, it’s not easy.  And either no one tells you that before you get married or you choose not to hear it from those cynical old biddies.  After you’ve been married awhile you see the humor in the jokes and understand what those people were trying to tell you.  It’s worth it though.  A marriage requires an effort.  A marriage requires TWO people to be engaged.  If you are in it for the long haul, be sure to pack some humor, compromise, forgiveness, hope, dreams and lots of love.

It’s been quite the ride and I’m looking forward to the rest of it…achy bones, graying hair and all!!

1 Corinthians 13:13

13 But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the [a]greatest of these is love.

All good things must come to an end….until next year!!

Thanks to The Treasure Trove (Lynnell), Dance Mommy’s Odyssey (Laura), Sempiternal (just call me AJ), The General (MB) , Redefining Normal (Brite), The Eagle’s Nest (Amanda), and Blog it ALL (Lea) for this month’s “Blog-Every-Day-in-May”.  Or most days.  Or some days.  Or whatever you felt like days.  It was fun and all good things must (PRAISE GOD FROM THE ROOFTOPS!!!) come to an end. (I know my Hubby is happy, too!)  So we will all now return to our regularly planned blog schedule or non-schedule and I thought I’d wrap it up with what I gained from this little exercise Bloggapalooza.

In no specific order:

  • I gained new “Followers” this month….these lucky people automatically receive an email each time I post a new blog, so they never have to worry about missing one single minute detail of my life.  Lucky, right?  Well, in case you want to be lucky, too…just click on the “+Follow” in the top left of the screen…..see below….other handy-dandy tools, “Like” if you enjoy the post and “Reblog” if you really like it and want that to be your post on your blog.  I didn’t even know what that WAS until Sempiternal “Reblogged” me…very cool indeed!
  • I found several new blogs along the way, one to encourage my fitness and health journey AND encourage my Faith walk like Clare @ Peak313Fitness.  The woman loves her some Jesus and keeps the workouts fresh to constantly keep that temple humming and wondering what in the heck is coming next?!?
  • Ellie @ Emerald Pie.  Her life in Ireland is fascinating to me, a world apart and yet no different in her daily life, challenges and busy-ness as a mom and wife.  Her Irish scenery is AH!MAZING!!!!
  • Ex-pats and their very interesting lives in Dubai @ Circles in the Sand and Three years and home in Switzerland.  Witty, insight and photos into other parts of the world, customs, differences in their “normal” lives and how they adjust and roll with each day.
  • A gem of thoughts to teach our daughters (though us parents and sons would benefit, too) from One Joyous Heart . Witty, dry, sometimes right on the edge of cracking, raw observations on motherhood and life to two very young and very close-in-age cutie-pies, Camp Patton (I see glimpses of myself when the girls were so very young at this stage….I want to hug her and tell her, keep taking pictures, take videos…they grow up and you. will. survive!!)
  • I’ll be keeping my day job.  The only time I want to write is first thing in the morning…that 20 extra minutes or so (the “or so” often sets me running behind!) after my Quiet Time.  I don’t think I’ll get a Nobel in those 20 minutes.  Probably.  Apparently you need to write often and enjoy it..another strike.  Soooooooooo…..just press “Follow”…you’ll know when I update.
  • You can get lost for VERY.  LONG.  PERIODS.  OF.  TIME.  on the internet.  You might think I learned this from Facebook.  Child’s play.  There are so many flippin’ blogs out there.  Thank goodness for my Reader, but then I often get sidetracked by hyperlinks to other blogs, then add them to my reader and boom….there goes another hour.  CrAzAY!!!!
  • Stepping out of my comfort zone to share something I feel passionate about usually brings out my best writing.  Over the next couple of months as I move my old mac blog over to WordPress (an EXTREMELY time-consuming process–one would think as “user-friendly” as apple generally is, that “THEY” would have made it easier to transfer blogs once they decided to no longer support mac blogs–but that is a whole other venting blog…) I will also add a page of “The best of….according to Hubby”.

This month I’ve celebrated Mother’s Day internationally, my birthday, my sister’s birthday, the end-of-the-year chaos, enjoyed new baby pictures, witnessed the ups and downs of a NICU baby doing her best to grow big and fat and go home (and won a T-shirt!), remembered the joys of maternity leave and the heartbreak of it ending, new house pictures, great words of encouragement, learned about Broadway plays, enjoyed recipes from new gardens and a world of LIFE happening.

So, this month comes to a close, but the blogging goes on.  Maybe not everyday, but it goes on.  Like life.  So get out there and enjoy it!!  And THANKS for visiting!!

Friends, the icing on the cake

When we lean on friends, the saying goes, “Sorrows are halved and Joys are doubled”.  We are not meant to carry the burdens of the world alone.  The blessing of friends helps to make the journey easier.

Sometimes it’s so hard to ask for help.  We want to be the ones who LEND the hand, not receiving it.   However, when we don’t ask we don’t allow others the opportunity to “give”.  It’s humbling to receive, it’s life altering to give.  It’s meant to go full-circle.

Yesterday, I was able to see my husband on the giving end to a friend.  Guiding, offering friendship and understanding in a most vulnerable place to a most precious person.  It is the beginning of a journey for this friend and what a blessing to witness.

Yesterday, a friend revealed to me His newly diagnosed cancer, His Faith and His trust in God’s plan.

Yesterday, I delivered a message in love to a friend and we’re still friends.

Yesterday, I shared life’s sorrow as a dear friend’s mother deals with her husband’s Alzheimer’s disease.

Life is hard.  Friends make it easier.

May we all cast our cares upon the One who can remove the burden of the world.

Matthew 11:29-31

29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

 

May bloggers and one more day!!

Laura

Lynnell

Apurva 

MB

Brite  

Amanda 

Lea 

Tick, tock…2 days left!

This month o’ bloggin’ is almost over.  PHEW!  It’s HARD to write everyday….especially when you’re not a writer (not a paid writer…)  It’s always eye-opening to do this every year, I definitely get a smattering of insight as to what you “real” (paid) writers do everyday.  Good grief!!  Where do you get the ideas????  Perhaps I am just to ADD and/or unfocused to write daily…it does take some time, peace and quiet to put these thoughts on computer/paper.  Either way, it is fun.  I’ll have a wrap up of my month on the last day 😉  so you have that to come back for!

Hope you had a great weekend!  We had a tropical storm most of our weekend which was good in that a) we REALLY needed the rain and b) I really needed a day or two where I was stuck at home and could tackle some long-procrastinated chores:  sewing, banking (not that procrastinated, but disliked), sign ups for next year’s Faith Formation (they have a new system and you have to enter each kiddo in INDIVIDUALLY!!! so they can build their database….next year will be a snap, not so much this year, especially when the system crashed TWICE on me during registration.  it’s done!), soccer and cheerleading tryouts/sign ups are scheduled, Theology of the body books ordered (middle school and high school), quality time with oldest daughter, sheets changed (I HATE bunk beds!!!), word/licensure survey completed, updated resume started (AGAIN!), and new book began.  Even got a walk in between the downpours.  It’s good to have a rainy day now and again!!

Go catch up with these peeps: new houses, new babies, beach pictures, great quotes, great gardens and recipes…

Laura

Lynnell

Apurva 

MB

Brite  

Amanda 

Lea 

Memorial Day

All we have of freedom, all we use or know –
This our fathers bought for us long and long ago.
~Rudyard Kipling, The Old Issue, 1899

Today we remember all those who gave their lives in serving our country, fighting for the freedoms we can’t possibly appreciate unless we’ve had them revoked.

A chance to thank our veterans and our active servicemen and women. A chance to thank their families.  You don’t get rich being in the armed services and the sacrifice to our country is a domino affect.

Parades.  BBQs. Decorating of the headstones and graves of fallen soldiers.  Take a minute today and give thanks.  Remember.  Memorial Day.